ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Ari Seirlis

“I grew up in Ladysmith.” That’s the answer I give to people who ask. Having been born in Limassol, Cyprus, and then arriving in Pretoria at two years old and then a short stint in Bethlehem, we settled in Ladysmith.

BEGINNING

I have had a privileged upbringing, parents who loved me and did everything they could for my education and well-being. They were devastated when at age 23 I broke my neck in a diving accident whilst modelling for a television commercial. Life was never the same after that, my dad died soon after my accident with a broken heart and my mum became the strength in our family. I embraced my future, found my Why and never looked back.

A few years ago in my mid-50s a number of friends and colleagues suggested I write a book, some even pestered. I brushed off the idea. In my 60th year I gave it some thought, got some advice as to how to start, put on my headset and started dictating on voice activated software. There were days when I could talk for hours and hours and then I couldn't proceed and my mind was blank of memories for some days too.

Of the six month I had a manuscript ready to edit. The writing was over by the time I turned 60 and this cathartic experience is one which I could have not done sooner when one of which I have no regrets.
My story is told, the chapters each have a meaning for me and learning for you.

EDUCATION

I knew that it was important to overcome my disability and this was done not by hours of physical therapy, exercise or psychology. I learned to read fast, I learned to type fast, I learnt to read a lot and chose what to read strategically.
The NPO sector is a tough environment to ply your trade and lead an association of people in desperate need of services, opportunities and change. My year at Gibs studying social entrepreneurship was the most significant education I subscribed to. A thesis changed my outlook and social enterprise was the way forward in the sustainability of such a sector. I graduated cum laude and became an expert in this field.

LIFE CHANGING ACCIDENT

I was 23, studying and partying, having fun, making friends but influencing none.
It was always useful having extra pocket money whilst studying and the opportunity to model for a television commercial took me to the Waterworld in Durban. The day ended tragically with me breaking my neck and whilst for many years I wanted to turn back the clock, it was not going to happen.
My life changed in many ways, more so than just physically. I got to understand the meaning of life, the purpose of life and the other side of life.
The story will tell all

QASA AND MAKING A DIFFERENCE

After years of finding my What and How in business I migrated into the disability sector as a career. I loved the space and knew I could make a difference.
I had a knack of finding out what the problems are, consulting with as many people as possible, working out and knowing how to solve the problem and engaging with the corporate social investors to ensure a long-term relationship for change.
My career with the QuadPara Association of South Africa spanned 20 years and involved burning the candle 12 hours a day for at least six days a week. I was obsessed with changing things, making a difference and most of all ensuring quadriplegics and paraplegics live their lives to the full potential. That was the mission.
I rose through the ranks of the disability sector to the highest level and this gave me insight into the political landscape as well as the challenges of sustainability and creating an impact, way more effective than an output.
I would not have had it any other way

This book is highly recommended for any person interested in learning about positive life-changing experiences. In my opinion, Ari embodies the characteristics of a superhuman being.
— Dr Johan Loubser

WHEELS OF FIRE

Forward

Dr Johan Loubser

It is a great honour to write the introductory foreword to this book, and I am very grateful for the opportunity to publicly state my sincere appreciation and encouragement for this man’s humanity, positivity, ability, courage and vision among many other highly admirable traits. I first became aware of Ari Seirlis during the late eighties through my involvement with the Quadriplegic Association of South Africa (QASA). Since then, he became very involved in the activities of QASA and actively participated in, managed or initiated numerous commendable and empowering social initiatives under the banner of QASA. In the book, Ari describes his happy childhood and his memories of a loving family and home environment. He lived a positive, energetic and interesting life as a teenager and young adult before a fateful diving accident left him paralysed and a wheelchair user. However, he adopted a mindset of viewing his form of disability as the all-ability state-of-mind he has. His faith and persistency enabled him to rise far above his challenges, and his example inspired many others in his sphere of influence. His insightful words and thoughts about the inclusive nature of human existence brought me to a better understanding of the integrated nature of emotional, spiritual, and social intelligence. Ari is a remarkable human being who managed to implement his deep understanding of inclusive respect between human beings in his own life, friendships, and teachings. His example taught me about the value of implementing the ‘I, me, thou’ principle in all walks of life. In his lifetime, Ari met a wide variety of noteworthy and influential public figures from whom he learnt many important life lessons. For example, his meeting with Christopher Reeve inspired him to keep his faith in his cause. Morné du Plessis impressed the importance of civic leadership and courageous service on Ari. Others taught Ari that creative stimulation is often rewarded by friendships that can become mutually beneficial to many stakeholders in such friendships. Ari also learnt that a life filled with integrity and dignity can be rewarding to self and others in your life sphere. In Afrikaans it can be said Ari learnt to appreciate the value of “lewe, belewe, uitlewe” (live, experience, contribute). He also developed a strong belief in the importance of truth, fairness, and goodwill in all friendships that he formed in his lifetime. This book describes a positive approach to living with dis-ease or disability and inspiring others in the process. Ari explains how he succeeded in converting his disability into this-ability that became all-of-his-ability. He also shares some of the valuable insights and lessons he has learnt from his involvement in numerous QuadPara Association of South Africa (QASA)-related initiatives. Leaders and practitioners in the fields of medicine, psychology, sociology, public service, business and non-government organisation (NGOs) among many other fields, can gain many valuable insights and lessons from reading this book. This book is highly recommended for any person interested to learn about positive life-changing experiences. In my opinion, Ari embodies the characteristics of a superhuman being.

Dr Johan “Loubie” Loubser